Do you ever ask yourself, “How in the world do I say no to my teenager without causing drama?”
各位家长，你们会不会偶尔在心里犯嘀咕：“到底该怎么跟青春期的孩子说‘不’，才不会闹得大家都不愉快呢？”
Don’t worry, you are not alone. There is a way to unlock your parenting superpowers.The Parenting Course is here to help. Here’s a glimpse into the course on this topic:
大家别担心，有这种困惑的不是你一个人。其实咱们每位家长都藏着 “育儿潜力”，只是需要找对方法激活它 —— 这门《亲子课程》就是来帮大家的。咱们先一起看看课程里关于这个话题的内容，或许能给你点启发：
“Helping our children become responsible, independent adults involves more than worrying about the boundaries. The pre-teen and early teenage years produce conflicting desires: one moment wanting to grown up, the next wanting to be protected and comforted and to be a child again. It is important to keep ‘reading’each child in order to sense when to ‘hold on’ and when to ‘let go’.” -The Parenting Course, page 246
课程里写得特别贴合实际：“要帮孩子长成有责任感、能独立的成年人，可不止‘纠结界限’这么简单。孩子在青春期前期和刚进入青春期时，心里总藏着矛盾的想法：上一秒想长大、自己拿主意，下一秒又想被咱们保护、被安慰，做回不用操心的小小孩。所以咱们最关键的，是要‘读懂’自家孩子，摸准什么时候该‘提供帮助’，什么时候该‘退一步’。”——《亲子课程》，第 246 页
Whether you’re dealing with drama, schoolwork stress, or figuring out how to keep your child motivated, you’ll find practical tools to empower you on the journey.
不管咱们现在正面对孩子闹小情绪、为作业压力犯愁，还是琢磨着怎么帮孩子提起学习和生活的劲头，在这门课里，都能找到实用方法。这些方法不是空洞的道理，而是能帮咱们更从容地应对育儿路上的难题，少走些冤枉路。
No matter if you’re a parent, a principal, or on the PTA-- hosting The Parenting Course is a sure way to elevate parenting skills and set students up for success.
不论你是孩子家长、学校校长，还是家长教师协会的成员，要是能推动这门《亲子课程》落地，好处特别实在：既能帮咱们自己提升育儿能力，也能让更多家长一起学习、互相支持，最终帮孩子在更理解、更包容的环境里成长，为他们的未来打下好基础。
What are you waiting for? YOU can bring this life-changing experience to your school! Are YOU ready to be a host? We’re offering two specially designed courses tailored for different stages of a child's development, divided into five topics:
大家还在等什么呢？你完全能把这份科普育儿学习机会，带到孩子的学校里！你准备好了吗？我们针对孩子不同成长阶段，专门设计了两门课程，每门都包含五个核心模块，帮大家精准解决不同年龄阶段孩子所面对的问题：
- The Children Course (ages 0-10 years):
- Building strong foundations
- Meeting children’s needs
- Setting boundaries
- Teaching healthy relationships
- Our long term aim
儿童课（0-10岁）
- 怎么给孩子筑牢成长根基（比如培养好的生活习惯、建立充足的安全感）
- 怎么精准满足孩子不同阶段的需求（比如幼儿期的陪伴需求、学龄期的鼓励需求）
- 怎么立温和又清晰的界限（让孩子既不觉得压抑，也明白 “什么能做、什么不能做”）
- 怎么引导孩子建立健康的人际关系（比如学会分享、尊重他人）
- 怎么明确长远育儿目标（不只看眼前，更顾着孩子的性格养成）
- The Teenagers Course (ages 11-18 years):
- Keeping the end in mind
- Meeting teenagers' needs
- Setting boundaries
- Developing emotional health
- Helping them make good choices
- 青少年课程
- 怎么找准育儿的长远方向（不跟孩子 “较劲”，而是帮他们学会独立、承担责任）
- 怎么读懂青春期孩子的真实需求（比如渴望被尊重、需要私人空间、想被 “看见”）
- 怎么立适合他们的界限（不生硬限制，而是和孩子一起商量规则）
- 怎么帮孩子培养健康的情绪（应对考试压力、人际烦恼、自我怀疑）
- 怎么引导他们在关键选择上不跑偏（比如手机使用、兴趣发展、未来规划）
Contact us today and unleash your parenting potential!
如果你也想试试用更科学、更轻松的方法陪孩子成长，今天就联系我们吧 —— 咱们一起激活你的育儿潜力，陪伴孩子一步一步好好长大！
Phone 联系方式☎️ 135-6404-4265
Nicky and Sila Lee, parents of four with over thirty years of experience in marriage and parenting, developed The Parenting Course out of their own journey. As co-authors of The Parenting Course and The Marriage Book, along with DVD courses, they have impacted countless families worldwide through their books, speeches, and courses. Their wealth of experience and passion for helping families is the foundation of these transformative resources such as The Parenting Children Course and The Parenting Teenagers Course.
