The Parent Struggle is Real….“How do I get my kid to actually own their responsibilities?”
为人父母者常陷这样的真切困境 ——“究竟怎样才能让孩子真正扛起自身的责任？”
Take a deep breath—you’re not the only one facing this. There’s a way to tap into your parenting strengths, and The Parenting Course is here for support. Here’s a sneak peak at what you’ll learn:
An excerpt from “The Parenting Teenagers Course” pg 37:
“How to help our teenagers move towards indpendence:
先试着深呼吸：你并非唯一面对这份困惑的家长。事实上，每个人都能找到发挥自身教育优势的路径，而《亲子课程》正是为你提供这份支持的伙伴。不妨先了解你将从中收获的内容：以下是《青少年亲子课程》第37 页的节选 ——
如何助力青少年逐步走向独立
…….‘Parents face two options. We can keep using the same patterns we used when they were young (and frustrate ourselves to death), or we can realise that our methods must change as our kids develop... As hard as it is, our role must move from controller to consultant.
“父母往往面临两种选择：要么继续沿用孩子年幼时的旧方法（结果常让自己心力交瘁），要么清醒地意识到—— 随着孩子的成长，我们的教养方式也必须随之调整。即便过程不易，我们的角色也需从‘掌控者’转变为‘顾问’。
What do consultants do? They ask questions, offer opinions, share experiences, present options and forecast outcomes. Ultimately, however, they step back and allow the client to make decisions. Consultants understand what they can and cannot do for their client, and as a result the client owns the process as well as the results.’ Daniel Hahn in Tim Smith, Almost Cool"
那么，‘顾问’该如何行事？他们会通过提问引导思考，会提供中肯建议，会分享过往经验，会列出可行选项，也会预判可能的结果；但最终，他们会选择退后一步，让‘客户’（孩子）自主做出决定。顾问始终明确自己可为与不可为的边界，正因如此，‘客户’才能既全程参与过程，也真正拥有最终的结果。”
—— 丹尼尔・哈恩（引自提姆・史密斯《Almost Cool》一书）
Homework battles, teen mood swings, keeping kids motivated—it’s a lot! The Parenting Course gives you tools that actually work.
Whether you’re a parent, school leader, or PTA volunteer, hosting the course is an easy win for parents and students alike.
作业时的争执、青少年的情绪起伏、如何维系孩子的内在动力 —— 这些场景想必都曾让你感到棘手！而《亲子课程》，正为你准备了真正切实有效的应对工具。
无论你是普通家长、学校管理者，还是家长教师协会（PTA）的志愿者，主办这门课程都是促成家长与学生双向受益的便捷途径。
So, what’s stopping you? YOU can bring this experience to your school—ready to host?
那么，还有什么忧心的呢？你完全可以将这份成长体验带入自己的学校 —— 你是否已准备好成为课程主办者？
We’re offering two specially designed courses tailored for different stages of a child's development divided into five topics:
- The Parenting Children Course
(ages 0-10 years): -
Building strong foundations -
Meeting children’s needs -
Setting boundaries -
Teaching healthy relationships -
Our long term aim - The Parenting Teenagers Course
(ages 11-18 years): -
Keeping the end in mind -
Meeting teenagers' needs -
Setting boundaries -
Developing emotional health -
Helping them make good choices
Contact us today and level up your parenting game!
我们精心设计了两门课程，分别对应孩子不同的成长阶段，每门课程包含五个核心主题，具体如下：
儿童亲子（0-10 岁）
1.筑牢成长的坚实基础
2.回应并满足孩子的核心需求
3.建立清晰合理的界限
4.引导孩子建立健康的人际关系
5.明确孩子教育的长期目标
青少年亲子（11-18岁）
1.心怀长远目标，锚定成长方向
2.理解并满足青少年的独特需求
3.建立适配青少年阶段的界限
4.助力青少年培育情绪健康
5.引导青少年做出明智选择
即刻联系我们，让你的教育能力实现进阶与提升！
Nicky and Sila Lee, parents of four with over thirty years of experience in marriage and parenting, developed The Parenting Course out of their own journey. As co-authors of The Parenting Courseand The Marriage Book, along with DVD courses, they have impacted countless families worldwide through their books, speeches, and courses. Their wealth of experience and passion for helping families is the foundation of these transformative resources such as The Parenting Children Course and The Parenting Teenagers Course.
Nicky Lee与Sila Lee夫妇育有四个孩子，在婚姻经营与子女教养领域拥有三十余年的实践经验。他们结合自身的育儿历程，研发出了《亲子课程》。作为《亲子课程》与《婚姻之书》的合著者，他们还推出了系列教学视频，并通过书籍、演讲及课程等形式，影响了全球范围内的无数家庭。
他们深厚的经验积淀与助力家庭成长的热忱，正是这些极具深远影响力的资源（如《儿童亲子课程》与《青少年亲子课程》）的核心基石。
