5年写作计划第1151天，星期二，费城，阴天。
这两天听的一段英文Podcast，Can't agree more，简单整理翻译，分享给看到文章的你:
1. Stop expecting other people to come into your life and make it great. Don't expect others to do the hard work for you. Nobody's coming to save you.
停止等待救世主，你的生活没有从天而降的英雄，真正的改写者，是镜子里的自己。
2. Stop expecting others to rise to the potential You see in them
别替他人在脑海中写剧本
3. Stop expecting others to read your mind act the way you would act.like parents, partners, employees. Stop assuming. start asking .start showing.
停止期待他人能读心术般按照你的方式行事——无论是父母、伴侣还是员工。停止揣测，开始表达，开始示范。
4. Stop expecting others to be your source of happiness. Stop giving other people control over your life what you do, what you feel, where you are, who you are raise and what you wear.
停止期待他人成为你幸福的源泉。不要让别人掌控你的生活选择：你的行为、感受、去向、身份、穿着。
5. Stop expect others to understand that you are changing.
停止期待他人理解你正在经历的改变。
6. You can't expect them to have answers to your problems or to realize just how important they are to you.
你不能指望他人解决你的问题，也不能期待他人意识到自己对你的重要性。
7. Stop expect everyone to like you. Even better stop trying to get everyone to like you.
停止期望被所有人喜欢，更进一步说，停止试图取悦所有人。
8. Don't expect others to show up for you the way you do for them.
不要期待别人会像你对待他们那样对待你。
9. Don't expect others to stay when their time to go. Let's them go with grace.
不要强留去意已决之人，优雅地放手。
10. Don't expect others to make you rich when you are not willing to work.
不愿付出努力时，别指望他人让你致富。
11. Don't expect others to make you their priority. Even if you made them yours, people are selfish by design.
不要期待别人把你放在首位，即便你视对方为优先，人性本就自带利己属性。
12. Don't expect others to have there together, they'll break apart. They＂ll let you down, they won't put in the work that they were supposed to. You and them might just be different growth stages. try to be kind every time you can.
不要期待他人完美无缺——他们可能崩溃，可能令你失望，可能未尽应尽之责。你们或许正处于不同的成长阶段。在能力范围内保持善意。
13. Stop demanding forgiveness even if you change your ways. If you hurt someone you have to stop expecting forgiveness and for everyone to move on as if nothing happened. Actions have consequences.
停止要求宽恕，即便你已改过自新，若伤害过他人，就要停止期待原谅，更别指望一切如常。行为皆有后果。
14. Stop expect others to be on the same journey you are on.
停止期待他人与你走在相同的人生道路上。
15. Stop expecting others to give as many as you give.
停止期待他人的付出与你等同。
这一生，你终将明白：
能托起我们人生的，从来不是谁的臂膀， 而是你自己亲手锻造的翅膀。
丰盛就在你心中
流出决定流入
真正的你就是丰盛
这是你的本然状态
能量场=无限力量+无限可能性
欢迎你来到我的能量场!
