林黛玉体属实火了。
INFP的特点是：
Although they may seem quiet or unassuming, INFPs have vibrant, passionate inner lives. INFPs are known for their sensitivity – they can have profound emotional responses to music, art, nature, and the people around them.
尽管INFP看起来安静或不张扬，但他们的内心世界充满活力和激情。INFP是出了名的敏感——他们对音乐、艺术、自然和周围的人会产生非常强的情感反应。
unassuming [ˌʌnəˈsjuːmɪŋ] adj 不爱出风头的；不爱炫耀的；谦逊的
傲娇拒花
不愿与宝钗宝玉同处一屋
暗讽宝玉饮酒
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Sarcasm is passive-aggressive in certain contexts.
在某些语境中，讽刺是有着被动攻击性的。
For example, if you invite your partner to a family gathering and they say, "Yeah, you know how much I love your family," in a sarcastic tone. Rather than directly talking about their issues with your family, they're expressing their negative feelings by masking them under the guise of a joke.
guise [ɡaɪz] n 外貌；伪装；外表
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Backhanded compliments are very passive-aggressive.
话里有话的恭维也是被动攻击的一种。
Think about statements like, "I'm impressed you acted civilized all night," or "Wow, your outfit is actually really cute today.”
想想这样的句子：“你整晚举止都很得体哈，我印象深刻呢”，或者，“哇，你今天的衣服真是可爱哈”。
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Contemptuous comments
轻蔑评价
Vaguely contemptuous comments of all kinds, aka anything that comes off disrespectful, can be passive-aggressive.
各种略带轻蔑的评论，让人感到不太尊重他人的那种，也可能是被动攻击。
For example, maybe you cook someone a nice meal, and they give you faint praise like, “Good meal, it was edible.”
It's confusing and frustrating to be on the receiving end of passive-aggression, and at the end of the day, healthy relationships (romantic or not) are all about open and honest communication.
如果你处于被动攻击的接受者这一方，你可能会沮丧困惑。毕竟健康的关系（无论恋爱关系与否）都需要开放和坦诚的沟通。
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